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y’all realise low empathy and difficulty understanding complex social cues and norms aren’t excuses for being a horrible person right
like it’s possible to struggle to relate to other people and still treat them with kindness. y’all get that right.
questions to ask yourself when you want to use an unhealthy coping mechanism
- why do i want to hurt myself? what will blaming myself reinforce? who taught me i am not allowed to make mistakes? who benifits from this?
- am i feeling overwhelmed? what’s really bothering me? can i write it down? what am i avoiding thinking about?
- am i reacting rationally? what would i tell a friend who was experiencing this? what can i learn from this? isn’t that what’s important?
- am i god? do i control everything? is worrying going to serve a purpose?
sir thats my emotional support waifu
lgbt checklist
- non professional haircuts
- inappropriate foot ware
- shirt way 2 small or way 2 big
- had to at one point prepare for a possible future where their family and friends were no longer a support system
- public transit
- substance abuse
- intimacy issues exacerbated by endangering your life by public displays of affection
- fuck cops
- bad memory
- utility related comfort item (The Jacket, The Backpack etc)
- violently hating your body as a teen but realizing it’s other people’s perceptions and expectations of it that you hate in your adult life
- never fucking going to the doctor
- UTIs
- everyone in ur friend group has tried to kill themselves
- maturity at a young age
- flannel
please be nice to all animals, even the ones you don’t find cute, they have feelings too
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