man nerd kids these days get everything. back when i was a homestuck we couldnt pull up to the local hot topic and get merch. we had to make our shit. we had to read dangan ronpa screenshots with translated text on a forum. our parents hated us,
sasuke: *smacks ur new fat ass so hard it pops* shit lmao sorry babe
kakashi: *pops ur ass open and removes the excess fat before stitching ur ass together again* you know i dont like it when u make changes your body Y/N
naruto: wow it looks perfect! instead of eating ramen ill just eat your new fat ass!
gaara: Y/N i can’t believe u did this to YOUR body… i thought we both agreed i’d be the one getting it done… how dare you.
rock lee: Y/N? I love you but… did you use my hair transplant money to get this done!? I can’t believe it… you knew how much that surgery meant to me!
the way that cis people conceptualize trans identity is so fucking exhausting for so many reasons, like not only is it invalidating to be misgendered in the first place, but then when it happens you have to decide whether to let it slide or whether to speak up about it and risk dealing with annoying or completely inappropriate questions that either should not be asked or could be easily googled. not to mention the percentage of cis ppl that take it as an opportunity to try to launch a theoretical debate about what gender is and isn’t, then putting you in the position of having to prove yourself and defend your own identity
on top of that, you aren’t even allowed to be upset about it b/c lots of cis ppl will try to make you look like the bad guy for not laughing it off or acting polite and understanding and willingly taking on an educator role with them
