I really think we need to stop looking at /solidarity/ as an innate process where oppressed communities NATURALLY align with other oppressed communities and instead look at solidarity as an OVERTLY coalitionary tactic, one that is borne through learning and compassion
considering the actually scientifically attestable facts that gay love keeps you eternally young and that forced or unhappy hetero marriage makes you age worse than milk i present to you
evidence a:
and evidence b:
i will let the evidence speak for itself.
(actually i’m not: this clearly shows that kakashi is prospering in a happy, healthy relationship with gai and that grandpa naruto here is getting the life sucked out of him by a loveless het marriage to a woman he doesnt even know that well)