so I’d been meaning to put this outline I made of what happened to me starting in late 2010/early 2011 when tumblr user misterhayden and I were together.
I want to also state before you read/are a follower of mine:
– don’t follow me if you follow him or are friends with him if I find out I’ll block you
– please don’t message me for further details/receipts of what happened. I have receipts but they’re triggering for me to search through and if you need anything further then you obviously don’t give a shit about what happened and you can choose to keep believing he’s a decent person. I literally don’t have the energy to appease people who want to believe he’s changed because he has not been accountable at all. Even releasing this info I know he’ll probably hear I made a post about it and I don’t want contact with him anymore.
– know that it is very, very awful for me to even see his art on my dash and talk about him so seriously please don’t contact him telling him about this because it’s my mental health on the line.
– people have confronted him before telling him about what I’ve said and he usually tells them to come to me to rehash what happened to strangers which is really shitty of him and triggering to me. He also tells people he’s changed and I was abusive too. This is really common with abusers and if you believe him don’t bother talking to me. I am not abusive and I was not abusive to him. He’s a liar. Abusers don’t often admit they were abusive. Why would he?
anyways, here’s a brief outline of what happened to me. Again, he has not been accountable, and barely admits he was abusive. You can reblog, just please leave me alone if you don’t believe me. It won’t undo what happened.
cw abuse post about misterhayden
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